People with these characteristics built into their personality don’t tend to empathize with others; and in a dating situation, they’re likely intimidated by and even envious of the exciting things you have going on in your vibrant life.

Don’t let the loser be a dead weight holding you back from living that life. Marni Battista has a Masters in Education and is a Certified Life Coach by the International Coaching Federation.

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Carver begins by defining “the Loser”: “‘The Loser’ is a type of partner that creates much social, emotional and psychological damage in a relationship…

The following list is an attempt to outline the characteristics of ‘The Loser’ and provide a manner in which women and men can identify potentially damaging relationships before they are themselves severely damaged emotionally or even physically.” () 1. “If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property even once, drop them,” Carver advises.

But if he’s contacting you via everything BUT directly calling you on the phone, beware! If you’re struggling to answer any of those questions, think twice about this guy. If finding a passion project isn’t a priority of his, it’s likely that sentiment stretches to other aspects of his life.

It takes two seconds to send a text message, but it takes thought and courage to make a phone call. Pay close attention to your conversations with this guy.

Luckily, we’re here to detail a few red flags to watch out for so you don’t wind up with one of these impostors and dating a loser! He knows he has to impress you at some point, so he’ll likely start off with a bang and take you out for a fancy dinner or extravagant evening of some sort your first time out together.

But as soon as he senses he has you, he’ll lure you back to where he’s more comfortable: the couch.The presence of even three of these symptoms indicates a potentially harmful relationship.Anything above this number points to not just probable, but certain harm.But, as we’ll see, even the symptoms that seem positive (such as the instant attachment and over-the-top attention, flattery and gifts) are in fact negative.Similarly, Carver notes that the Loser doesn’t have to exhibit all of the symptoms listed below to be dangerous.But unfortunately for us women, not all of them live up to that stereotypical, ‘loser’ image of an unkempt, jobless bum playing video games on his mom’s couch.