Lucia: They want someone with little to no baggage – someone who isn’t seeing his children every other weekend and has a lot of available time.They’re looking for someone who isn’t going to try to control them, who is good in bed, has stamina and endurance and a great body.They have little to no baggage – they generally don’t have an ex wife they are paying alimony to or kids they see every other weekend – and they are not threatened by a woman’s accomplishments and are very supportive.

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They have a direct approach and mature attitude about life and provide great companionship and interesting conversations.

Furthermore, Cougars are financially independent and can usually provide great career advice.

Lucia was kind of enough to spend some time answering some key questions about Cougar dating: Lucia: There is little to no drama when dating a Cougar.

She’s emotionally mature and has neither the time nor desire to play games.

Many younger men want to satisfy their sexual fantasies and think it will be better and easier with an older woman.

Others feel like they get along and communicate better with older women.Finally the relationship may not last if he is still establishing himself in his career or if he wants children, but the woman doesn’t, that can be a deal breaker.Lucia: As there’s no designated “Cougar meeting area”, the top 3 places to meet a Cougar are at work, on dating sites (cougarlife.com, dateacougar.com) and at the gym.The ‘cougar’ community has followed the recent influx of dating sites and apps on the market and there are a plethora of options, to choose from.So if you are open-minded about age, whether you are seeking a life partner or short-term companionship, compatibility can come in all ages.Lastly, if you may be ridiculed by your family, friends, society Lucia: Younger men grew up in a generation where they see a woman as an equal and not some that they need to dominate.