Trauma after dating girl with bpd
I had my suspicions about cheating, but I never had any concrete proof.
I would catch him in lie after lie and when I would confront him he would continue to lie.
He always had a way of making me believe everyone else was lying.
All the while, when he was with me he would continue the marriage and baby talk and constantly tell me that he loved me more than anything in the world.
He told me that I was the only one for him and he would never do anything to jeopardize losing me.
He showered me with love, flowers and other pricey gifts and this went on for about 6 moths.
On Mother’s Day he told me that he loved me so much and he couldn’t wait to marry me and make me a mother someday.
We talked of marriage and actively tried to have a baby, which never happened.
He moved into my house and started paying the mortgage, while I paid all the other bills.
We were all out one night and she blurted out that Stacy had attended a recent skiing trip that he neglected to tell me about.
I questioned her more and she looked bewildered that I had no idea that Stacy was always spending time at his mother’s house, even going as far as sleeping there on occasion. I questioned him about it, but he denied everything and claimed that our friend didn’t know what she was talking about.
He said she was just saying those things because she didn’t like him. He had 2 weddings to attend while we were together, both of which he said he wasn’t allowed to bring a guest.