Sprung the dating game help
I kept saying no initially because I wanted to make sure I no longer had any lingering feelings for my ex and honestly I was unsure of the Taurus since he sounded just too good to be true.
Anyways, we started quickly planning our future together with aspirations of marriage and our financial situations and out of nowhere after missing out 8 month anniversary to go to a wedding in the states, he comes back, brings me flowers and dumps me.
His response was, lets see what happens, but told me that he did not have his children this weekend.... Bull I did what you stated and called instead of txt, asked him if he had plans he states nothing set in stone, so I ask if he wants company he says maybe later (everything is maybe) so I told him well give me a call if you want me come over, I let him decide what were going to do.
So I mention how about this weekend, I can come over make dinner, we can watch a movie and such.
Third you should be happy to have a guy like him i'm sure he is the most loyal person and kindest person you know. We dont talk anymore, he was not ready to move on from his divorce. I went last month to his city for work, and we did spend some time together. It's been just a week since I have had any communication from him. We first dated for 3 months then out of no-where he sent me and email and it was titled "the Future". Then out of no-where he sends me a text and says what are you doing. After coffee at starbucks we hugged and he texted me to tell me how much fun he had.
thank you for understanding what is going on when he is hot and cold and you should show him that you understand him so that he might open up. We did try and give it one last go but at this time our lives are just too different and we want different things. We enjoyed the same things, talked for hours about different things & he did open up about a lot of personal stuff but again our minds are in different places. At our work dinner he sat right by me and kept telling me he would watch my purse, and then put some of his food on my plate. The next morning I was supposed to stay their another night, but something at work happened. I got to the airport and my friends told me to NOT text him and let him know I was there. Where he told me that he couldn't give me the 110% that I deserve and that he didnt want me to disappear from his life. I am 47 pisces lady who started dating this 51 taurus man 6 mos ago.
I understand that he may be putting up his defenses and such, but to me that seems a bit rude the way he does it. You have to give alittle in order to get a little." This will work! I do see him from time to time (work for the same company-different departments) & still get the looks (when he thinks im not paying attention) but he has made up his mind and I know him, he will not change it. That night he had to help a friend with his car, and when he got home that night he texted me to just tell me he got home. Had dinner on the beach, he fed me some of his food on his fork. THen he kissed me on the lips, put his hands and arms around my waist and patted me on the butt. He didn't ask me the night before what I was doing so they said just get on the plane. I told him something happened at work and I had to bold back. I found out shortly after we started dating that he has loves dating more than a lady at the time..problem is that I have small kids and so not 100 free and he has no young kids and he is a retired cop..he has lots of time on his hands, I do not.
Ignoring communication, unless it’s going to benefit him. He didn't hold my hand although I was hoping he would. The we drove downtonw, then he took me to my hotel. He relaxed on the bed and I gave him a massage like I always do. Well I did just that and when I got back he texted me and said I saw you left. He told me he cant commit but he likes me very much, I decided to stay for the time being, he makes me feel sooo sexy I never felt that eve The last month he bought something in another state and he went there to clean and fix the place.
We started talking again in December and decided to take it slow he stood me up for a date (which hurt but I got over it) Then we got together on New Years Day and it was as if the time apart just made our bond even better. Can i politely tell you what a "maybe" means to this man?
The thing is he's so hot and cold, one minute im his doll and then turns around and ignores me the next. Maybe i will see you tonight/next week/next century IF NOTHING/NOBODY BETTER WILL COME MY WAY.
I told him why dont I come over and we can decide from there...worked out great ended up watching the movie.