I recall speaking to a woman, who was involved with the very last Narcissist I dated and she told me that after our Narcissist had hurt her again and again, by constantly blowing hot and cold and making it quite clear that he was never going to give her the relationship that she wanted, she had actually offered to be ‘friends with benefits,’ and even went so far as to tell him that, no guy would ever match up to him.

This, after he repeatedly treated her like gum on the bottom of his shoe.

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So if you honestly think you are going beat the odds – think again.

I’m not saying men and women can’t be ‘just’ friends, but that distinction happens only when both parties have absolutely no interest in being together. With their charm they can usually swoop any woman off their feet, but their specialty lies in their ability to keep women hanging on. Sussing out those that are overly giving, that rationalize and make excuses for other people’s bad behavior and those that the Narcissist has successfully managed down their expectations, so that they treat every little nugget of attention like a lottery winning.

At worst it shows a user mentality and someone that likes to keep his options open.

I know we all want to be the winner, where all other women have failed, but the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior.

For the Narcissist knows that it’s just a matter of time before he will make his hasty retreat.

A Narcissist is like a drug addict, always looking for his next fix.

I didn’t find that odd at first…until I noticed that more than eighty percent of the people on his Facebook were women ‘friends.’ I was the fresh meat, getting the lion’s share of his attention and what I sensed right off the bat was that these women were very territorial.

Since I was shiny and new, I garnered most of his time and affection and this didn’t sit too well with the other women in his life, who had been relegated to the end of the line.

He will throw you crumbs of affection and he will spin tales, hinting of a possible future together.

This membership allows him to pop in and out of your life, mess with your head and keep tabs on you, while at the same time it keeps you stuck and fixated on him.

He builds up a tolerance to people and the Narcissistic supply that he extracts from them.