My best friend dating my ex
Lots of people have told me unequivocally that they would never date a friend's ex.
This rule is almost never stated or enforced among queer communities.
If you're gay, you will almost inevitably date a friend's ex at some point.
We know our backstories will be tangled and intertwined.
I can count the degrees of hookup separation between my closest friends and myself, and usually come up with no more than two or three.
There's no use telling her that he's only dating her to get back at you cuz by the sounds of it, you don't know that for sure. Soon enough he will probably just break up with your BFF. Sounds like you've got a big problem on your hands - especially now that your BFF and you are gonna see him a lot.
You're just assuming that he's still crazy about you, when he more than likely just got tired of chasing you around. Username: Anonymous Deal with it and somehow do something you know he likes right in front of him and that will make him want you more. If you're a former letter writer and would like to send an update, please email it to [email protected] "update" in the subject line.Tell us how it all worked out and whether we were a help.Even if you meet someone to whom you think you have no previous connection, a 10-minute conversation almost always reveals that she went to high school with your college roommate, used to be on a volleyball team with that girl from your book club, and had a six-month stand with your favorite barista.Queers don't tend to expect our dates to come into our lives completely free of prior complication.They believe this is something everybody knows, that they're just following the rules.