Posted by Naomi Michelle in Black Love Advice, User polls Hi Blackloveadvice family! No touching, no caressing, nothing at all until the waiting period ends.

My name is Katrina and I have a question for you guys. He’s tall, sexy body, intelligent, everything about him is perfect all except one thing…. And I stand firm, no sexual contact whatsoever until the 3 month period ends.

When we stood side-by-side, his penis was about even with my abdomen, which made sex exactly as awkward as you'd imagine. Trust this 1993 study, published in the way-too-entertaingly-titled Annals of Sex Research, which found that there was basically no connection between height and penis size. But soon after we got together, he asked why I had so many heels that I never wore.

Trying to reconcile height disparities while boning involved a lot of crouching on unstable structures made out of stacked pillows and crawling around on tables, trying to use my D in high school Geometry to make all the angles line up. It turned out that he loved me in heels — and also, he had made his peace with his height and his body, and didn't need me to change the way I dressed or the things I liked to make him feel more like a man.

Now I must say if he doesn’t satisfy you sexually and a fulfilling sex life is high on your list of what matters in a relationship then you are left with almost no choice but to end the relationship.

You don’t want to end up cheating on him and having all the silly arguments that come with a lackluster sex life.

Are we saying that we believe that it's sexually ideal that women take up as little space as possible, that we're at our most attractive when we look itty bitty compared to our male partner?

You don't need a women's studies degree to know that that's whack.A 2012 survey of college students found that 89 percent of women were only interested in partners taller than them (while 47 percent of men were open to dating a woman who was taller them).48 percent of women dating online are only interested in men who are taller than them, and a study of online dating in the New York City area found that men who fell below the average American male height of 5'9" typically had a less than five percent chance of having women reach out to them.When this situation happened to me I broke up with him 2 days later, I understood the problems a lack of sexual satisfaction would cause in the future and I understood it was best for me to just move on. If having a good sex life means a lot to you then I suggest you do the same.One last bit of advice, I think you should probably alter the way you approach the 3 month rule so this doesn’t happen to you again. Instead of not allowing any type of physical contact, I think it would be best if you allow kissing and touching, that way you can feel around down there and find out what he’s working with before you get to attached.