'No relationship is perfect' shouldn't be used as a rationalization for complacency."— Irina Firstein, LCSW, individual and couples therapist"A friend taught me that no matter how in love you are or how long you've been together, it's important to take an exhale from your partnership.

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Many times an issue is brought up by attacking or blaming one’s partner, also known as criticism, and one of the killers of a relationship. Instead of saying, 'You always leave your dishes all over the place! ' try a more gentle approach, focusing on emotional reaction and a positive request.

For example: 'I get annoyed when I see dishes in the living room.

has taught us anything, it's that relationships are messy.

Personal experience proves it too: From our eighth-grade romance to our most recent breakup drama, "love isn't easy" is a life lesson we know all too well.

It’s best not to try to make something that is meant to be seasonal or temporary into a lifelong relationship.

Let go and enjoy the journey."— April Beyer, matchmaker and dating and relationship expert"This may sound obvious, but you can't imagine how many people come to couples therapy too late, when their partner is done with a relationship and wants to end it.

It is very important to realize that everyone potentially has a breaking point, and if their needs are not met or they don't feel seen by the other, they will more than likely find it somewhere else.

Many people assume that just because they are OK without things they want so is their partner.

Here, we've distilled it down to the very best advice 15 experts have learned.

Regardless of your personal situation, their words may help you uncover the key to long-lasting happiness.

"Saying and doing small, simple expressions of gratitude every day yields big rewards.