I asked an anonymous group of dudes the immortal questions: how can you tell if a woman is a potential future wife or just someone they want to have sex with?

They are Dan, Alex, and Marty, budding investment bankers at the same financial firm, which recruited Alex and Marty straight from an Ivy League campus.

When asked if they’ve been arranging dates on the apps they’ve been swiping at, all say not one date, but two or three: “You can’t be stuck in one lane …

Anything further would require boundary discussions and would iterate from there.

I was asexual/aromantic for most of my life so I don't know what looking for a wife in a date looks or feels like.""A couple to three dates, maybe an extended set of conversations."See More: Who You Have The BEST Sex With, According To Your Zodiac Sign What are the biggest distinctions between the women you date for sex and the women you date in the hopes of building something more? I think if they're asking questions about me and I'm asking questions about them then we probably are interested in each other for more than sex.""Mainly, intelligence.

When you're looking to find someone to settle down and Netflix and chill with forever marriage-style, there are so many factors to consider. Before you go and wife yourselves up in a panic, read on.

Do you both want to buy a house in Prague when you retire (just me? There are things we can figure out easily, but other things that seem unanswerable. When a guy meets you does he lock eyes with you and immediately decide "wife" or "sexy party time pants friend"?I'm very sexual, so I'd want to know that sex was a good possibility. I wouldn't say "wife," because I'm not looking to get married. Looking for a wife seems like jumping way way too far into the future and not focusing on the present and finding happiness in current friendships and relationships.I'm also not looking for sex for somewhat similar reasons although in that case I have a hard time building trust due to past traumas.""A friend, first and foremost.I take a relationship and let it be what it will be. If it seems like we aren't going to get along, I'll end it politely.If she seems like someone I'd like to have sex with, I'll go for that.It’s setting up two or three Tinder dates a week and, chances are, sleeping with all of them, so you could rack up 100 girls you’ve slept with in a year.”He says that he himself has slept with five different women he met on Tinder—“Tinderellas,” the guys call them—in the last eight days. ”“We don’t know what the girls are like,” Marty says.“And they don’t know us,” says Alex.