But….(there had to be one) I get frustrated by his communication style (or lack thereof.)We talk fairly regularly and, for the most part, he’s reliable and consistent. Are they examples of a guy that really doesn’t care? I calmly told him how it bothered me that he never communicated what the plan was. I might take a picture of something (the beach I’m sitting on, my friends’ children) that I know he’d enjoy, and I never get an acknowledgement. As for my wife, she has only two flaws: I don’t understand people like this. But her family warned me about “Bridget Time” when we first met. And we both feel that the strengths of the relationship far outweigh the fact that I have to bring reading material wherever I go because of her slow pace, and she always has to listen to me rant about Republicans, customer service, and money. ) Anyway, I know I’ve hijacked your question to talk about myself once again, but I think it bears great relevance on your situation with your quality boyfriend.However, there have been more than a few instances of lapses that leave me feeling frustrated, confused, and disrespected. They’re just little things, but I find them inconsiderate. Shockingly, it hasn’t changed in the time we’ve known each other. I’m not going to defend the lapses in his behavior whatsoever. It IS inconsiderate not to let you know he’s running late.

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Strengths: As an INTJ, your mind is able to retain a tremendous amount of information all at once.

Your mind is complex, and you are a naturally intelligent being.

Weaknesses: As an ENTJ, you are far too argumentative.

You rarely take other people’s feelings into account, often including your own.

I know that I can tend to make a big deal about little things, and I don’t want to do that now. That doesn’t mean that I don’t bring up her 2 bad habits all the time (MY flaw – critical,) but rather that asking her to change is like her asking me to stop being a know-it-all. But unless you want to scrap your entire relationship for these occasionally frustrating incidents, all you can do is ask him to be more considerate with such matters in the future.

I know that he’s really a great guy, that he’s not seeing anyone else, that he cares about me. ” My wife would tell you pretty much what you can already figure out on your own: I’m a know-it-all. If he loves you, he will do his best to honor your request. And you’ll put up with it and make jokes about it and live a very happy life together.

Remember that listening to other people’s ideas and opinions won’t kill you.

And they might have some ideas that you will agree with as well.

I agree, there will be some quirks to deal with, but in the beginning of a relationship, it’s difficult to know if these are honest quirks or signs of no interest.