If you’re just looking for casual questions to ask someone on a first date, go here.

If you want to know what to say when you approach a girl for the first time, go here.

—————————————- Give the person time to think about these questions. Failed expectations are what causes a lot of disappointment.

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You also need to know about how the other person feels about kids, (yes, no, number, who raises them) lifestyle locations, (city, suburbs, country, nomad) marriage, (soon, later, never) religion, (same, different, important, not important) family, (close, absent, involved) recreation, (outdoorsy, night life, traveler, sporty…) Those things can be discovered when you’re dating already.

Some other ways to find out more about the person you’re dating is to take a Myers Briggs personality test, the Strengths Test in Now Discover Your Strengths or go to or and create a fictional profile, answering all the questions together.

Some women will think of the writer of the profiles below as weird, but…

ideally you shouldn’t be interested in “most” women anyway, but you should be targeting those women with your profile that you believe you will get along and will have a connection – whether you are looking for a short-term dating, a lifetime partnership or anything in between: “About Me: I would hate to bore you by telling you how wonderful I am by attaching to my name a bunch of flattering adjectives.

After you read advice on writing a great online dating profile to attract women you should be ready to apply this advice and write your own great dating profile.

I am a big fan of learning what’s a good through making a contrast between good and bad.

If men/women come across your profile, that is the first thing they will notice, besides your profile picture.

It is the first thing that gets you interested and hooks you in.

An online dating site is an interesting portal to meet new people, and join groups with like-minded individuals.