LARA ARRIVES INTO work at 7am most mornings, she puts the kettle on for a cup of tea, sits down and starts going through her emails.But unlike the somewhat mundane messages most people open up in the morning, Lara’s inbox is teeming with written accounts of man’s deepest fantasies.

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That is not to say she can not turn on the “bossy bitch” if that is the client’s preference, however.

Lara takes a lot of pride in her work, she relishes a chance to be creative and gets a kick out of the fantasy emails or scripts clients send her before sessions.

“I once had a guy who I think I kind of took by surprise a little bit.

Part of the game was that he wanted to be corrected or given out to for using bad language.

A dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who plays a dominant role in bondage, dominance, submission and sadomasochism (BDSM) activities.

At her Dublin property, Mistress Lara has four unique rooms for clients to enjoy these activities.

Both of these men were married and admitted their wives would not be happy if they found out what they got up to in their sessions with the mistress.

But as far as Lara is concerned, though she enjoys BDSM in her personal life and practices it with her boyfriend, these interactions in her professional role do not count as sex acts.

‘I did that to him’ Though she has come up against criticism from people in Ireland’s fetish community who claim she is only in this for the money – she charges €250 for two hours of her time – Lara says she gets real enjoyment and fulfillment out of her job. A petite brunette, she comes across as chatty, funny and kind and this soft side of her is something she thinks appeals to her clients.

“People would expect the bossy bitch, but I find more often than not, you get further with a smile than you will with a cross face.” She will often sit down with a client at the end of a session and chat with them over a cup of tea.

“The milking machine is quite popular as well,” the dominatrix said with a laugh, adding “And I don’t have any cows”.