Between those two extremes, there are all sorts of people who fall somewhere in the middle.

As a writer who talks about dating and relationships, what has always amazed me when it comes to relationships is how people completely disregard compatibility.

Sure, that woman might cook him dinners, perform in bed, and tell him how much she likes him, but none of that stuff penetrates a man’s psychology on a deep and meaningful level. When you really understand and master the art of tapping into the deep parts of a man’s psyche, he will want to move mountains to possess you.

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They describe what it’s like to be with their guy and it almost sounds like they’re talking about their arch-enemy… Sometimes the relationship started out well and then over time disintegrated into something that resembles resentment and abuse rather than love or respect.

Sometimes the relationship was never good to begin with, but the woman wants me to show her “relationship magic” to “make it work.” This is what I equate to trying to shove a square peg into a round hole.

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Subscriptions: Click and enter the box in the upper right hand corner of each Column.MORE: 4 Relationship Rules to Live By The thing to realize is that people with great relationships don’t have the great relationships because they know great relationship secrets or psychological loopholes of the male mind. Fundamentally, people in the best relationships all have one thing in common: they don’t have relationships with people who are not a good match for them. And what’s the easiest way to know if they’re a good match or not? What men desire most is a woman who inspires them to be their best self. Instead of focusing on the feelings and experience they create for the man, the woman fixates on her own wants, her own worries, her own fears.Being that woman is a much different mindset than what most women typically do these days. And amidst this completely self-absorbed mindset consumed by what she wants, it’s no wonder that she’s unable to hook a man’s interest in a significant way, one that goes beyond just hooking up.When I think of relationships that didn’t work out for me in the past (ones where I wanted things to work out and with me. I can clearly see now, years later after all the emotion and attachment is completely gone, we never would have reached that level of intimacy that is ultimately valuable to me in a relationship. holding your breath in anticipation of a relationship that you desperately want to come into existence but always seems just out of reach?