It is important to create spaces, such as school communities, where the behavioral norms are not tolerant of abuse in dating relationships.The message must be clear that treating people in abusive ways will not be accepted, and policies must enforce this message to keep students safe.
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 1 in 4 adolescents experiences verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual abuse from a dating partner each year. Dating violence includes any behavior that is used to manipulate, gain control, gain power; cause fear, or make a dating partner feel bad about himself or herself.
Consequences of Dating Violence Young people who experience abuse are more likely to be in fights or bring weapons to school, have higher rates of drug and alcohol abuse, and engage in high-risk sexual behaviors.
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But what if the person you care about is the one who is being abusive toward their partner? This can be such a difficult situation to deal with.
Teens who have experienced dating violence are at much higher risk for a variety of serious problems.
For example, they're more than twice as likely as others to consider suicide.A national survey found that ten percent of teens, female and male, had been the victims of physical dating violence within the past year and can increase the risk of physical injury, poor academic performance, binge drinking, suicide attempts, unhealthy sexual behaviors, substance abuse, negative body image and self-esteem, and violence in future relationships.Teen dating violence can be prevented, especially when there is a focus on reducing risk factors as well as fostering protective factors, and when teens are empowered through family, friends, and others (including role models such as teachers, coaches, mentors, and youth group leaders) to lead healthy lives and establish healthy relationships.You might love your family member, but you know that what they’re doing is harmful.You may not want to admit that it’s happening, or you may just feel like cutting them out of your life. Relationships with family members can be complicated, and if someone is behaving abusively, that makes things complicated. At loveisrespect, we talk a lot about how to support someone you care about if they are being abused.