There was a woman I was talking to at a bar a few weeks ago. Here’s a whole boatload of common relationship stuff. Here’s some of what I consider some of my best articles to answer the most common questions: Why Didn’t He Text Back? , How To Get Out of The Friend Zone With a Guy He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not Another major type of question is trying to figure out the guy’s feelings or where she stands with the guy she’s seeing. A lot of the time, I’ll get questions from women who feel in their heart that they want to make a move or move in a certain direction, but really don’t know if it’s the right move or not. And my very best on what makes him emotionally bond with you and fall in love: What Do Men Want In A Woman and How Do You Find Love Making a Long Distance Relationship Work Everything you need to know to have a successful long distance relationship here: Long Distance Relationship Advice (LDR Advice) Can a Girl Say ‘I Love You’ First?Really attractive, though older than me (10 years older actually). At one point, we got onto the subject of relationships, men and women. I could answer it here, but you might as well just read the post all about it: Guy doesn’t text back Understanding Male-to-Female Attraction: Here are a couple of hot topics in the realm of male-female attraction. Here’s a whole bunch in that arena: Does He Like Me? There is a wide range of “does he like me” questions that I get. Short answer is that you can, but probably shouldn’t since you’ll be left wondering he would have done it had you not been such an “eager beaver”.

Still, not all relationships with exes are a bad thing – there are plenty of guys who are friends with their ex-girlfriend and it’s not an issue.

The question is, what does it mean for you when your boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend?

Attempting to mold a man/relationship into being the relationship you want is a losing battle – progress is an illusion if you want something that he ultimately does not. Give him space to step up and be that man without manipulating, prodding, hinting, guilting or nagging him to be that man. No good relationship was ever built on the grounds of manipulation. But ultimately you won’t get the relationship you want unless you’re willing to pull the plug on a relationship that isn’t what you want.

How long are you willing to wait before you cut bait and move on?

Most people don’t talk about men relate to their jobs differently than women in terms of how it can impact the relationship (I think people fear being accused of sounding “sexist”).

Ex-girlfriends can be another form of baggage altogether.

Then be patient and give him small, easy, bite-sized opportunities to gradually open up to you. Signs He Might Not Be Into You Not everyone is a good match with each other. Maybe, or see what Sabrina says when a guy doesn’t call. Sometimes a relationship starts out with the man pursuing you like you’re the center of his universe.

And you can always check out How to tell if a guy likes you, Does he like me? And the people we’re most attracted to aren’t always the best matches for us – sometimes they are the worst matches for us! Check out: Signs He Does Not Like You, Does He Really Love Me? And somehow as time goes on, you get that feeling in the pit of your stomach that he’s losing interest in you – he no longer seems to be putting in the effort he once was.

It think it’s a very important topic to be aware of. If that’s your question, then this is a must-read: How to Be Free of Neediness Where Did He Go?

Check out: My Boyfriend Isn’t Interested in Sex Anymore Am I Being Needy? I see it time and time again – everything great, but now he seems distant or maybe he’s even vanished without a trace.

In the end, they’ve failed because I knew in my mind, heart and gut that it wasn’t what I wanted and as much as I tried to numb myself into wanting the relationship, I couldn’t kid myself.