If you already have the book, thank you thank you thank you and please tell a friend.In the meantime, here are the preliminary results of the survey.It turns out to be a source of considerable concern for a lot of ladies, as this poignant response shows: “Where is he?

The phrase “finding a man who wants to be a grown-up” came up several times.

This response summarized the challenge nicely: “Meeting a man who I feel compatible with, feeling attracted to that same man AND having him treat me well.” This is what all the online dating methods call the phase.

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Most gratifying were the responses from some of you saying, “Omigod, this is happening to me right now! I’m in a similar situation; however, I believe he’s the first man I’ve ever truly loved.

He has commitment issues and will never really settle down with me.

I’ve come to realize that he is not good for me and have left twice but he has come back every time without promising me a future.