Personality is the key to being good with women and dating. Deep down, women are attracted to your personality more-so than any other trait of a man.

The energy, excitement and sensual tension that you wanted to last forever. No fights or arguing just absolute joy and pleasure everyday.

Can you think of a woman that you so badly want to be with right now. Bliss…If any of the above sparks your interest then you need to pay attention.

You become soft because you have the scarcity mentality. You think there are just a few women out there and there’s nothing you can do about it. Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not “egotism”.

You think: “There is NOBODY out there for me so I better treat this one girl amazing because I don’t know if and when I will ever experience this again”. It’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.

The phrase “finding a man who wants to be a grown-up” came up several times.

This response summarized the challenge nicely: “Meeting a man who I feel compatible with, feeling attracted to that same man AND having him treat me well.” This is what all the online dating methods call the phase. Because when you’re soft (expressing feminine character), you put the woman above you on a pedestal (forcing her to take on the masculine role).Typically, a woman can only feel attraction for a man when she is in her feminine, therefore as a man you need to step into the masculine dominant role.It turns out to be a source of considerable concern for a lot of ladies, as this poignant response shows: “Where is he? Do you remember the girl that made you feel the way that no one else could? All night…Imagine being with this woman, getting along just perfect, deeply in love, and having great connection every day.The media has done a great job at making you believe in the erroneous assumption that money and six pack abs is the path to get your dream girl. If you spend too much money on a woman or do too many favors for her, you are subtly telling her that your pocketbook is ALL YOU HAVE TO OFFER.