"They might be ok with it, but it's not their Thing." He added, "the best way to have a threesome is to have everyone equally excited for it- I check in with both members of the couple to make sure everyone's comfortable." "Boy next door" Caleb agreed that communication between the couple was key to a positive experience, saying "A good thing to ask is what you (as a couple) want out of our time together- be specific, don't be nervous for what you may think of as weird or bizarre requests. It's nice for a couple to be able to take a pause and know they won't have to navigate my feelings." Even though it can be a little intimidating to ask for what you want, said Caleb, it's important for your enjoyment of the experience.

The worst that can happen is I say, no, I don't do that." When you book an escort, the comfort of the couple is the priority of the provider, says "one of a kind" escort Viktor, and that can take off some pressure as well. "Don't let nerves prevent you from getting the most out of our appointment...

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Approach meeting new people the way you would any other stranger, i.e. Don’t treat new people as conquests (at least not right away).

If you click and there’s chemistry, then by all means pursue it, but don’t treat every poly event like a sex party.

I was pleasantly surprised when I came across advice columnist Dr.

Nerdlove's suggestion in a piece about threesomes- hire someone.

Lucky for you, a very handy guide for “coming out as poly” already exists in the delightful publication known as Red Eye.

Samantha Jones called it "being the guest star," and Britney Spears has a song about it.

You get what we're talking about: a threesome—specifically the bisexual (or just flexible) third person a couple adds to their relationship, also know as the unicorn, so called for its near-mythic rarity.

It seems like talking about open relationships, threesomes and polyamory is all over the news over the past year, from Jade-Martina Lynch explaining polyamory to other Big Brother contestants, to Psychology Today reporting an increase of acceptance of consensual nonmonogamy among younger adults, to VICE publishing a piece about growing up in a poly family.

My boyfriend and I have toyed with the idea of hiring a male escort for a threesome before.