Do you think we have forgotten the Art of Flirting?Please add your thoughts in the comments section below.

Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.

Also, a lifetime of love and loss has made many women distrustful and unwilling to get back into the dating game.

Other paid sites, like EHarmony.com, and Chemistry.com, ask you to take a personality test before they look for “matches” for you.

There are also faith-based sites like Christian and where members can write and respond to anyone.

Bette Davis once said that getting old is not for sissies.

Well, many women would argue that the same comment applies to dating after 60.

For example, three simple ideas for creating dating opportunities include smiling genuinely, approaching men first and learning the art of flirting.

His assessment requires a fundamental shift in thinking – women must not be afraid to make the first move!

Second, even if you don’t meet anyone, working out is important for every aspect of your health after 60 – mental, physical, and emotional.

Getting in shape will improve your confidence and improve every aspect of dating after 60.

So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?